tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post5843416549772519011..comments2023-11-19T21:42:17.901-08:00Comments on My Path to Mommyhood: I Am Sad TodayJesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-48550531222955884702016-05-08T01:56:08.028-07:002016-05-08T01:56:08.028-07:00Hugs for you. I'm sorry you had a moment of s...Hugs for you. I'm sorry you had a moment of sadness, frustration and heartache. It is not always something we can avoid. I'm glad you are giving yourself permission to feel all of these ugly feelings instead of trying to ignore them. Sometime you have to move through it. Let it out and let it go. When you are ready, you will get back to that positive place. Abiding with you.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-24671519445190920882016-05-04T11:11:46.150-07:002016-05-04T11:11:46.150-07:00Sometimes you just need to cry and you need to be ...Sometimes you just need to cry and you need to be sad and you need to be depressed. Let yourself feel it, and it'll pass much faster than if you try to stuff it down deep inside. Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00585102132829280344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-85389496629945192012016-05-04T08:37:49.341-07:002016-05-04T08:37:49.341-07:00I think that you have every right to be sad. None ...I think that you have every right to be sad. None of us are happy 24/7 and as an expectant mother waiting for the right phone call, I would think that it is very normal to get down every once in a while.<br /><br />As far as the coupons/goodie bag, after Mother's Day I might call the store and explain your situation. Maybe they could give you a new coupon/goodie bag?Non Sequitur Chicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07268138421234170972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-21531452375832427262016-05-03T19:37:46.105-07:002016-05-03T19:37:46.105-07:00Thank you. And I agree about it being nice to know...Thank you. And I agree about it being nice to know someone else is going through similar struggles. ((Hugs))Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16036165207963542073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-10850250262590428452016-05-03T17:42:32.862-07:002016-05-03T17:42:32.862-07:00I am sorry that you relate to this, because it suc...I am sorry that you relate to this, because it sucks...but it is nice in a way to know that I'm not alone. And card shopping--yes. Thinking of you, too, at this time where Mother's Day smacks you in the face daily. Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-1080317371024274812016-05-03T17:41:25.217-07:002016-05-03T17:41:25.217-07:00Thank you so much. Sometimes I'm okay with the...Thank you so much. Sometimes I'm okay with the waiting, and days like these past few I feel just so hopeless and like I could just wait forever and never quite get to be a mom. I appreciate your wise words and your hug!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-72501753992078237862016-05-03T17:40:24.146-07:002016-05-03T17:40:24.146-07:00Thank you--I really did need to cry it out and mop...Thank you--I really did need to cry it out and mope all over the place. Thank you so much for seeing me as an expectant mother. Sometimes I feel it, sometimes I feel like the fakest of fakers. Thank you so much for the love and hugs!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-16745809932714491662016-05-03T17:39:31.284-07:002016-05-03T17:39:31.284-07:00Thank you so much, lady. It was just a rough coupl...Thank you so much, lady. It was just a rough couple of days, of feeling sad and like parenthood is so far away. THank you so much for your encouragement and your kind words. Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-33569180702833967552016-05-03T17:38:36.164-07:002016-05-03T17:38:36.164-07:00Thank you so much... I just didn't have it in ...Thank you so much... I just didn't have it in me to go to the triple B store while it's all decked out for Mother's Day. So I'll just have to get things gradually with all those 20% off coupons... I think it expires on my birthday. And I will try the camera lens! I can't believe I didn't think of that. Thank you so much for the clever tricks and the love. Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-18169416651771515872016-05-02T23:31:52.477-07:002016-05-02T23:31:52.477-07:00I relate to this so much. Even the 7 years part, a...I relate to this so much. Even the 7 years part, actually. Mother's Day is really hard, and I always get sad and irritable when it's coming up. I hate how much it's everywhere. And shopping for a card for my own mom kills me every time. Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16036165207963542073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-32606227895785193212016-05-02T18:56:30.554-07:002016-05-02T18:56:30.554-07:00I'm so, so sorry. It is so horribly hard and ...I'm so, so sorry. It is so horribly hard and unfair that you're in this place and waiting. It's very understandable that you need the space and time to mourn those losses. <br /><br />Thinking of you and sending a hug. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-69566309547181004472016-05-01T10:17:56.655-07:002016-05-01T10:17:56.655-07:00Oh sweetie. I'm so sorry. Cry it out. Seriousl...Oh sweetie. I'm so sorry. Cry it out. Seriously, it is okay to be sad because this is a lot. It's hard to wait for any unknown, but this one doesn't have a date on it for when the wait is over. It's unfair and terrible because you've done nothing wrong.<br /><br />So give yourself permission to be sad. To take the time you need to feel all of this. No apologies at all.<br /><br />Finally, I view you as an expectant mother. You have been waiting and preparing. <br /><br />Sending many hugs and love today and for as long as you need them.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-47136302456337513542016-05-01T06:57:19.974-07:002016-05-01T06:57:19.974-07:00I hate that people can do everything right, be rea...I hate that people can do everything right, be really awesome people, and still have to wait and suffer and be disappointed (at this point in time. We can't see the future.) I'm sorry that right now there are so many discouraging things in your life. They are not forever, they will pass.torthúilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07738803052167620020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7998166587816121679.post-58055904014242779032016-04-30T16:34:53.051-07:002016-04-30T16:34:53.051-07:00(((Big Hugs))) I am sorry you are sad today. It...(((Big Hugs))) I am sorry you are sad today. It's ok. Sometimes you do just need to let yourself feel all the feels. Saying some prayers for peace of heart for you.<br />About the hazy phone pictures...try wiping off the camera lens. I am dumb and all my pics were coming out that way for months til I figured this out.<br />And about the triple B store...if it's the one I am thinking of they have a text club (and an email one) and upon signing up you get a 20% coupon and they also pretty often send them, I get notifications all the time about 20% off coupons. You probably don't want to get those random texts, but you could sign up get your code, then opt out again. You can always sign back up at another time. It's 20% off one item but if that's all your buying then you're good.<br />Be gentle with yourself this weekend. Thinking of you.Charlottehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08987444437659867827noreply@blogger.com